How to sucessully move to a another place and establish a new social environment - Introduction
Hey there, how are you? Do you want to drink coffee with me and tell me something about you?
No? Ok this is not really surprising, since we don't know each other and probably live in complete different places. But would you agree if you would already know me? What if I would be a longtime friend? Probably yes, if you have time within your tight schedule for the day we could go to the coffee shop next door and share the latest rumors about Tom and Kim. So why are you acting so different in the same situation? Because we are used to and we try to maximize the profit for the time we spend. In the moment a stranger is asking, you will automatically check if it's worth it to talk to this person and spend time with him or her. If you are single you will probably tempt to be more open for such occasions, if your opposite is attractive. In most of the other case you will not if it's a stranger. In the case of a friend you want to spend time with him or her to maintain and improve your relationship - so it's also going to contribute to your well-being.